There are many women who feel that marriage is the most important thing in their life. Right from their childhood they have been taught that the only aim and purpose of their life is to one day get married and then take care of their husband and his family. As a result of this, these women have a very low self-esteem and hardly any confidence in themselves. However, times have changed and the men today are not looking to marry a slave or a domestic help, but they want a life partner, who would be able to share all the ups and downs in his life like an equal.
Happy Wives Make Happy Families
It is a well-known fact that until and unless you are happy with yourself, you would never be able to make anyone else happy. Therefore, the idea of giving up on all your dreams and desires and doing everything that would suit the needs of the future husband will only make you depressed and this will easily get reflected in your personality. No man on earth would want to marry someone who is sad and depressed all the time. Therefore, if you wish to get married at all, you would have to start feeling happy in your life and this is possible only when you would have dreams of your own and would take the necessary steps to fulfill those dreams.
Contribute To the Responsibilities Of The Family
There is absolutely nothing wrong in being a housewife, but to think that your duty and responsibility to the house is restricted to only household chores is wrong. It is the responsibility of both the husband and the wife to participate and contribute in every aspect of the house, by doing the daily household work or in earning money and paying off the monthly bills. In fact, many boys these days want their life partners to have a career and identity of their own. Having a good career, helps the women in not just increasing their self-confidence and level of happiness, but also makes handling of the various marriage responsibilities easier for both the partners.
Keeping the Hope Alive In a Relationship
No one forms a new relationship to be treated like a slave, with no dreams and desires. When a couple gets married to each other, they hope that together they would fulfill the dreams of each other. If this hope dies in even one of the partners, the relationship also dies. Since a relationship is formed between two people, therefore, it is only right that the wishes and dreams of the both the partners should matter equally. Therefore, if you want your marriage to work, then you need to ensure that you are happy in the relationship. Do whatever it takes to make you happy. A strong independent woman is respected by everyone, and if your spouse loves you, he too will respect your dreams and would want you to get empowered and stay happy forever.