Being fatty is not considered to be good in our society. Especially, if you are at the age where you are trying to find someone to get married to, or you are about to get married. Everyone expects the bride to look slim and pretty on her wedding day. Many females start dieting and literally starve themselves, in order to look beautiful on their wedding day. It is sad, but most of the people believe that in order to have a perfect wedding, the bride as well as the groom need to be physically fit, when the fact is that to have a perfect wedding, all you need to have is unconditional love between the bride and the groom.
Be Proud Of Each Other
When your partner fell in love with you and decided to marry you, he or she must have seen the beautiful person that you are on the inside and therefore, decided that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with you. Therefore, for you to imagine that on the wedding day, if you do not lose weight, then your partner might suddenly start to feel embarrassed by your looks, is a crazy thought. You need to have confidence in yourself as well as your partner and if you are not able to trust your partner in this regard, then maybe the whole idea to getting married to him or her is wrong and you need to reconsider your marriage decision.
Feel Happy About Your Wedding
Your wedding day is the most special day in your life and once it’s gone, it will never come back. Therefore, instead of wasting your time in going to the gym and dieting, you need to spend your time doing what you really want to do, like go shopping for your wedding dress, accompany your partner for cake tasting and venue selections and do all the other fun stuff that are a part of a wedding. It is these fun things that make a wedding perfect and not your size zero figure. Spend your time trying to get to know your partner better, so that the two of you can have a better future. Your slim figure is not going to help you solve your differences with your partner in the future.
Opinion Of The Society Does Not Matter
The guests at your wedding are exactly that, just guests, who would stay for a little while, pass judgments and then move on, without even bothering to see what their comments have done to your life. Therefore, the opinions of such people should never be taken to heart and lifetime decisions should never be based on the thinking and wants of these people. The only person at the wedding whose opinion about you matters is your partner and if he or she has no problem with your weight, then do not let anyone else tell you that you cannot have a perfect wedding unless you lose some weight. If your partner likes you fat, then you would have the most perfect wedding even with all the weight.