Have A Better Husband and Wife Relationship with The Help of Following Tips 

Have A Better Husband and Wife Relationship with The Help of Following Tips

Divorces are on a rise and the basic reason for this is that the couples have stopped taking the efforts to try and save their marriage. Whether it is the husband or the wife, both the partners in the relationship today, run away from the problem and instead of trying to solve it, they use it as an excuse to end the relationship. Maybe it is not possible to save all marriages which are falling apart, but there are quite a few cases of divorce, which could have been avoided if either partner had made even little effort to save the relationship. 
 
Below are a few simple attitude changes which can help these couples in having good husband and wife relationships. 
 
Do Not Boss Around
 
Marriage is not about domination, but about sharing your life with someone and therefore, whether it is the husband or the wife, no one has the right to act like a tyrant or dictator in the relationship. Both the partners should respect each other. 
 
Mutual Decision Making
 
It is not possible that every single decision that one partner makes will be acceptable to the other partner as well. Therefore, before taking any final decision, the opinion of the other partner should be sought and the final decision, even about small matters should be taken mutually. 
 
Do Not Use Foul Language
 
Fights between couples are common and when in a fight, the tone and language of the people tends to go all wrong. It is important that at such times, both the partners make sure that they do not use aggressive or abusive language for each other. While it is alright to get go of oneself when expressing love, when expressing anger, restraint is very important. 
 
Bring Out Your Intimate Side Often 
 
Keeping intimacy in your relationship is very important. If you let this spark die, then you can surely expect the love and care that the spouse shows towards you to also die out slowly. Therefore, to ensure that your commitment stays on for life, you need to up the intimacy level in your relationship, especially when things are not going right between the two of you. 
 
Be A Friend
 
There are times when your partner expects you to listen and understand him or her like a friend and not as a husband or wife. Being a friend for your partner, helps in ensuring, that there are no secrets between the two of you. Basing your relationship on friendship is in fact known to be a perfect solution for happiness in a married couple’s life. 
 
Appreciate
 
Taking our partner and his or her qualities for granted after a certain point of time in the relationship is quite common. But this can be one of the reasons for the problems between the couple. It is important to appreciate your partner every now and then and then he or she knows that you still cherish and are impressed by their qualities. 
 
Communication
 
The importance of good communication in a relationship can never be overemphasized. Therefore, start a dialogue with your partner today itself if communication between the two of you has been lacking in the recent past.  
 

 
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