You will not find any relationship without challenges and pitfalls and marriage is no exception. The thing that binds the people together is unconditional love and trust for each other. A husband and wife fighting for a long time may love each other in next moment. But the problem become miserable when there is an entry of a third person in a couple’s married life.
Here are a few ways to avoid the entry of third person in a couple’s married life.
Don’t Give Weightage
Whoever the third person is (your friend or parents or anyone else), he/she is not important than your spouse and married life. It is better you like the person and pay due respect too, but don’t give more weightage to him/her more than you spouse. If you do otherwise, surely you are going to ruin your relationship with your spouse.
Don’t Develop Emotion with Third Person
Be it your bosom friend, he/she has no place like your spouse after you get married. For a happy marriage the feeling and emotions much be developed and bound between two husband and wife only. When you involve your emotions and feelings with a third person, you are going to complicate your married life.
Understand and Enjoy the Married Life
It is highly recommended that both the spouses understand and enjoy the company of each other. A relationship is glorified only when it is between two partners. The beauty and charm is added to life and a strong bond is nurtured between them.
Watch and Check the Intentions of Third Person
If you are in talking terms with any person may be your college friend or a colleague, have a close watch as well as checks on his/her intentions. Even the close friend may have intentions not known to you. Don’t allow his/her entry in your married life. Always be available to your spouse and not to the third person. Never let your partner have the feeling that he/she is less important. You need to spend quality time with each other and not with the third person.
Concentrate and Focus on Your Relationship
One of the most important ways to keep a third person away from your married life is to focus on your relationship. You both are the best relationship doctor and provide each other the best counselling. Try to solve your problems with the help of each other. Get closer to each other and never leave your spouse alone in case of any crisis. Take out all sorts of negativity from you and learn the draw the boundary line in the life. When you invite someone on dinner or tea party, be in the limits and always try to keep your marriage bond intact. If you are true to yourself and your spouse, you won’t allow anyone to look into your relationship and say a word. If anyone does it, stop him/her then and there itself. The relationship of marriage is nurtured by care and dedication of both the partners and you must be committed to it.