Intercaste Marriage Rituals 

Intercaste Marriage Rituals

In recent times the younger generations have modernized themselves and are in hurry to settle in life and find a partner. The guy gets hold off of a magnetic girl whereas the girl finds an equally qualified husband. This simply implies that love marriages have increased on the whole. The children have reduced the burden of the parents. Nowadays parents are also easy going with the children’s decision and are trying methods to conduct a happy marriage.
 
Pros and cons 
 
In one way intercaste marriages are encouraged as it abolishes the discrimination of caste, race, community and wealth. People have become broad minded by involving in intercaste marriages. They consider all people equally with due respect given their character and attitude. Love between the husband and wife are given priority. But the major drawback is that the couple’s unknowingly gain the curse from their orthodox parents. Their wedding takes place in the absence of their parents and relatives.
 
Best way to marry
 
If you have planned to marry a person of other caste then you can get accustomed to two unique marriage styles of “arya samaj and brahma samaj”. These two traditions consider god as one and the wedding takes place in a simple and elegant way. It is also an inexpensive way which ends with the party given to friends.
 
Requirements 
 
The basic requirements of arya samaj ritual to take place comprises the following,
 
  • Birth certificate of the couple to confirm their age
  • Any kind of id proof to prove their citizenship
  • Two friends or well-wishers to stay as proof for the wedlock
  • A priest 
Once the wedding gets over the marriage is officially registered and the marriage certificate is issued by the officials in 1 or 2 hours. If the wedlock takes place in the presence of parents, they do not have major role to play apart from blessing the couple.
 
Intercaste marriage rituals
 
Though the major traditions and rituals are not given importance, the couples enjoy a fulfilling marriage only after the exchange of garlands and tying of the nuptial knot without the sacred fire, as god is the ultimate evidence of their happy marriage
 
The problem begins
 
The husband and wife enter into the relationship after hideous struggle. They are subjected to various relationship problems which arise the day after the marriage. The husband might be influenced by his parents to get his wife converted to their caste and follow his traditions. The wife might be deprived of her rights to worship her own god fearing the elders of the family. The magnetic girl may now seem to be a worst enemy to him. Ultimately, it’s the time to save your marriage life.
 
How to save your relationship
 
The husband might feel his self-esteem being tested and argument might become severe. This is the time to save your marriage life. The couple must understand the flaws and try to adapt themselves. When love increases there is no space for misunderstanding to pop up. Adjustment and tolerance is essential for a happy marriage life. Marriage counselling is advisable to sort out the issues.
 

 
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