Sex is such a thing which keeps the marriage-bond highly strong. Out of various roles of marriage the first one is the regularisation of sex relations. So, it is very necessary that the both the male and female co-operate each other to the desired satisfaction level during their sex.
In many part of the country, the talk about the sex is considered as a taboo and hence there may be hesitation among the females as well as males in coming openly before each other during initial days of marriage. But, with the passage of time it becomes a normal affair.
You may be reading many articles such as five tips or a few tips that strengthen your intimacy. Here are also some tips that would help to have a healthy sex life.
Talk Openly
Most of times, it happens that the couples are hesitant to talk about sex preferences with each other. It affects their sex life adversely. To avoid this situation they need to talk openly with what they want with each other in bed. The talk need not be started with sex. It may bring other partner to not come openly. Hence, start with normal discussion and talk on common and normal topics and then come to sex. Try to know the desires of your partner and also tell your desires openly.
Show Non-sexual Affection
While the sex is very important, if you show non-sexual affection to your partner like loving, kissing, hugging, holding in a caring manner, it will keep your bond stronger and you will spice up your sex life as well. If your partner is comfortable with you, it will reciprocate in sex life too.
Wear Attractive Dress in Bed
Try to understand what type of cloth the partner finds sexy and appealing in you. You may wear that dress. It also gives a feeling to the other partner that you take care of him/her. This dress may be night gown, T-shirt, undergarments or even no dress. This will highly spice up your sex life. By all your means keep your partner sexually stimulating.
Take Care of Feeling of Your Partner
If your partner has less interest in sex in comparison to yours, don’t get angry or comment which disturb other things. Act like a good friend; bring your partner close to you. Offering a cup of tea, chocolates, roses and even small gifts will change the mood drastically. Send love signals by verbal as well as non-verbal means to your partner.
Don’t Go for Frequency
The intimacy in sex doesn’t mean that you should have higher frequency. Though it matters a lot; but having ultimate level of satisfaction for both the partners whenever they indulge into this act matters more. It has been seen that partner not satisfied, goes under frustration and it highly affects their other affairs of life.
Be Honest and Faithful to Each Other
Looking outside the marriage for fulfilling your sex desires is highly bad for your married as well as sex life. It will destroy your intimacy at all. It is applicable to other aspects of life (other than sex) also. A faithful partner will be committed and highly satisfactory to your desires in bed. Have fun in life, decrease stress levels and laugh with each other. This will keep your sexual environment always healthy and you will have a great sex life. The god gifted sexual relationship will never fade away.
