Raising kids is toughest, responsible and most fulfilling jobs in the world. And in this situation you might feel least prepared on child rearing. Child rearing is the well-being of children is more important to adults than anything else. To get success in raising child first thing you have to do is get happy yourself, because on average happy people are most successful than unhappy people in both work and love towards their children. The first step to happier kids is to be bit selfish. How happy you will be will affect the how successful your child will be. According to research there will be behavioral changes in their children if the mother is depressed and negative outcomes in their children which make parenting less effective.
Steps to fulfill your parenting needs
- Boosting your children’s self-respect, kids start developing their self as babies they look and learn everything from by observing your daily habitats your voice, expression, behavior are absorbed by your kids you are developing their self-esteem more than anything else
- Letting them do their things on their own make them strong and more capable and increase their self-respect
- Don’t make harsh statements which causes mental damage and decreases their will power
- Let your kid think in their own and know that everyone makes mistakes but you still love them, even if you don’t like their behavior don’t use words like weapons
- Use your words carefully and communicate with them carefully so that they can understand.
Be good to your kids
There are some child rearing styles which makes your child improve their self-control and self-respect Stop reacting negatively to your kids and don’t criticize them more often than praising or complimenting them it can make a negative effect on your children. Appreciate them for their doings so that they increase their ability to improve on their own. Discipline is very important aspect of best child rearing parents, the discipline helps children to build their self-control and choose acceptable behavior.
Don’t be authoritative towards your kids
Don’t push all your wishes towards them without asking them his or her goal is don’t be as push parents, authoritative child rearing makes your kids mentally damage and will not respect you further so become a good role model and spare some time with them and become wise parents. Young kids learn everything from you so you will be their role model. So change your behavior which you wish to see in your kids: friendliness, honesty, respect, tolerance, kindness etc. explain your kids about values and motives make suggestions and offer them choices and explain them your feelings and mold them according to that. Be flexible towards your kids and willing to adjust your parenting style, because over expectations towards your kids make you let down often instead explain them your feelings and let them change on their own and be flexible with them. Show them that your love is unconditional towards them, you have responsibility of correcting your kids it doesn’t mean you should be rude and start blaming and finding faults in them how you communicate with them is more important.