The relationships with in laws are not always troublesome. If you know how to manage, you will enjoy living with in laws and they will also reciprocate you with love and care. Here are a few ways through which you will understand the realities of in laws relationships.
Your in laws have seen the world more than you and may have different perspective of looking at the things. When they say something, just listen to learn new things. If you are not agreeing with them on certain item, put your points logically in a rational manner. Never raise your voice; after all they are your in laws and not your parents or siblings who have the habit of listening you. Mind it, it requires two people to argue, if you avoid other person will not argue with you. By arguments, you are spoiling your relationship.
Daily Prayer or Worship
Every family has some deity or God who is worshiped or prayed. When a new bride comes as new woman in life, she needs to learn the worship method of prayer of family God or deity. In this stage, the mother-in-law may act as a guide, mentor or teacher of family values to the wife of her son. As a part and parcel of family, you happily participate in family prayers or worships. Learn the traditions and cultures that you will pass to your next generations.
Take out Time For in laws
You may be very busy in looking after and managing your job and domestic duties, but remember that the your in laws have important place in your life too, because the best person of your life (spouse) is their child. You may not live in the same city or may not visit them very often, but your telephone call for a few minutes will save them from the feeling of loneliness and lot of insecurity.
Be a Problem Solver
There is an old saying that you get out of your wishes. So, if you have good wishes, you will do well and find good solutions even in adversities. The same thing is applied in relations too. If the in laws are facing some trouble and consulting you; don’t curse them. Rather show your empathy and advise them solutions by they may be able to solve the problems. It is best way of dealing with in laws and you will receive only blessings and good wishes from them. They will feel proud of having a child in law like you.
Praise Your In-laws
You know you will feel very happy when you are praised by someone. The same thing is applicable to your in laws too. Never criticize them for anything which might have gone against your wishes. Explain your spouse about your feeling. Do everything for your spouse and you will receive the same in most of the cases. Your spouse is your strength and you may find a reason to praise your in laws for this. You may thank them for raising such a nice guy for you. If you deal with them in this manner, you find receive no complaints on their part.