All that people say is that marriage is fixed in heavens. But what happens after marriage is mainly due to the couples fault and there is nothing to do with God. Save marriage and solving relationship problem has become one of the world’s greatest point to discuss nowadays. Gone are those days where people sit together discuss about their family problems and take solution. Now with the invent of technology a couple life is getting broken by just one short SMS and most of the time it is leading to divorce.
Marriage counselling has become a business
Lots and lots of people tend to have problem in the marriage life and all this problems arises within a period of one month to two years. This is the reason why marriage counselling has become a good business in the recent times. You peep into any city you have numbers of marriage counselling centres run by both government and private sector to save marriage failure. You see thousands of couples entering into these centres to solve their family problem. The irony is that a marriage life of two people is judged by a third person and he give solution to the relationship problems.
A small bit of togetherness and discussing things can solve problems
Understanding your partners is very important to have better life. If you feel that you have some discomfort in your marriage life then never feel lone. Try to call your partner and sit and discuss things. But the most difficult part in this is that people always feel that they don’t have problem. There are signs in natural life which can show you whether there is still love in marriage life.
Signs of discomfort in marriage life
A marriage calls in honesty and trust between two souls. It is always believed that a marriage can change people and can convert them in positive ways. But recently the marriage life of young generation in particular is in the mode of threat. The reason for this threat is not the external factors and mostly it is because of the couples itself. A short misunderstanding cannot be handled by this generation couples and they tend to break each other.
Judging the signs of discomfort in Marriage life is very easy
There are lot of ways in which you can judge yourself that your marriage life is in the signs of dying stage. But again the signs of discomfort are not always common to both male and female. Some signs may be common but most of the signs are separate for male and female.
Male Signs of discomfort that can break marriage life
- Male tend to spend more time in office
- Ignores house made food
- Watches TV more than discussing things with wife
- Has an affair with someone.
- Tend to show more anger than love
Female signs of discomfort that can break marriage life
- Never talks to her husband
- Keeps herself silent
- Never take care of kids
- Shows anger on everyone in the family