The wedding guests are essential for making your wedding day special for you and therefore, it is only right that the minimum that these guests expect from the bride and the groom is a thank you note. This thank you note is a very important first conversation that you as a married couple have with your friends and relatives and thus, it becomes essential that you word this thank you note in such a manner that you are able to make a good impression on the minds of everyone.
Below are a few tips which can help you in writing a perfect thank you note.
Don’t Right Ahead Of Time
Many couples feel that after their wedding they might not get the time to write a personal thank you note to each and every guest and therefore, they try to finish this job before the wedding itself. This may sound like a smart move, but the fact is that writing ahead of time can prove to be dangerous as there are so many things that can happen during the wedding, which can make your words in this pre-written thank you note sound false or even worse fake. Therefore, it is always better to avoid writing these notes in advance.
Personalize The Note
The purpose of these notes is to communicate your feelings to the guests and let them know how much you appreciate the fact that they took out time from their busy schedule to come for the wedding and help in making the day really special for the both of you. Hence, you need to add a personal touch to every thank you note by mentioning either the gift that you received from them or by mentioning some incident that happened during the wedding.
Use Good Quality Paper
When making the wedding budget, make sure that you allocate a small sum of money of money for the purchase of good quality paper and pen for writing the thank you notes on. Simply because the wedding is over, does not mean that you start acting miserly and use bad paper for this important note. By using an average or bad quality paper, you would be in a way insulting your guests and the whole purpose of sending these notes would get defeated.
Don’t Leave Family Out
When writing this tank note, always remember to mention the entire family of the guests. Therefore, you may address the note personally to one individual in the family, but during the note make sure to send your regards to everyone else in his or her family.
Note Should Be From Both Of You
Whether you are writing the thank you note to someone from the bride’s family or the groom’s family, each and every thank you note should be from both the bride as well as the groom. Now that you two are married, any and every personal correspondence of this nature that you would have with your friends and family, would have to be from the side of both of you and not one individual.