The holy books of all the religion talk of a healthy union between two souls of opposite sex and the name given for this union is the marriage. This relationship lasted through the life in olden days, but with the passage of time and various complexities involved with human beings, there comes of the chances when the marriage is on rock and finally it is terminated by divorce.
It is matter to note that there can’t be agreements on all the terms and conditions of life between the two individual. The thinking and thought process differs at time and with the passage of time almost all the marriages experience normal wear and tear. But in certain cases, due to ego, disparity in economic status or earning capacity and other various reasons the couples reaches a point of no return and they part their way.
Whatever may the reason, the first attempt of both the partner must to save the marriage at any cost. Here are a few tips that would help in avoiding the term “divorce” and strengthen your marriage.
Understand Each Other
It is quite possible and natural that both the partners are not from the same society and status. Thus, there are bound to differences in thinking and other issue. But this should never in a barrier in the happy married relationship. Both the partners need to understand each other and provide the space taking great care of not to hurt each other whatsoever, the reason may be.
Respect Each Other
It is highly desirable that both the partner respect each other’s feelings. If there is a difference of opinion of any topic, they should not discuss in front of other relatives such as parents or kids. Rather, they may delay the discussion. They need to sit separately and at a lonely place (may be in their house when no one is present) and discuss the issues. One partner should not always impose his/her decisions on the other, but he/she must here the ideas of the other and accordingly modifies the decision. For example, there may an issue that the wife is willing for higher education or promotion job and the husband wants a new kid in the family. The thinking of the both in this regard can’t be wrong. What is required that both the partner after healthy discussion solve all the issues because the marriage let you grow together and no singly.
Care and Intimacy
The intimacy in the relationship is maintained by various things. Both the partner need to care in each other. If the wife daily prepares the breakfast and packs the lunch for kids and husband, the relation will be strengthen when the husband is preparing and offering a cup of tea to his sweet heart. At the same time, not only spending the money is enough. When one partner is sick, visiting the renowned doctor if coupled by taking a casual leave and be with other partner all the times will bring more and everlasting intimacy.
In normal days of life, even the small things of care leaves long lasting impression and the other partner remain indebted from the heart. Taking other partner for long walk, late night dating, small gift of flowers etc. leaves a high impact on the marriage and the couple doing so will never turn towards divorce and they are always in the stage of stronger marriage.
Trust and Honesty
This is the core of every relationship but in married life it matters more. Even a small blow of mistrust and dishonesty will wreck the marriage. Don’t be in fantasies. For example, whatever may be your close friend of you (before the marriage), if your sending messages, letters or talking over telephone without consent or knowledge of other partner, you doing nothing but wrecking your marriage. So, be true, honest and trustworthy to your partner. Remember, if you do this, you will be happy ever after and you will be living a perfect marriage.